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About Christian Connection

Christian Connection is the largest, and longest established subscriber based UK Christian dating site. Since we launched in September 2000, hundreds of couples have met through our site and thousands of single Christians have found friendship and community. Every day on Christian Connection, hundreds of people are logging in, sending messages, using instant chat, and getting to know each other through our forums and local meetups.

The site is Christian owned and always has been. We seek to serve UK Christians of all traditions. As we all know being single and Christian can be tough, especially as Christians we are in a minority.

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Why I Started Christian Connection

By Founder, Jackie Elton

A place of community which single Christians could call their own

Jackie Elton, Founder

I was aware that so many Christian friends were struggling when it came to finding somebody. There were very few opportunities outside local church. There were some dating sites available for Christians, but they were generally a bit tacky and focussed on the USA and American Christians.

So I developed the vision of starting a Christian dating site of the highest quality, which people of all Christian traditions in the UK and Ireland would feel comfortable and safe with and which would give them a real chance to find somebody special. I also wanted it to be a place of community, which single Christians could call their own, people who can feel rather marginalised in Church communities. Much about the site has changed and developed over time but it is still this vision that drives us.

Our Values

Our values and the way we deliver our service are very important to us and, we believe, to our members.

Open to all Christian Traditions

Fish

We welcome Christians of all traditions. We don’t ask people to sign a statement of faith, and we recognise that people’s specific beliefs and the way they express and practise their faith can be quite broad. But it is important that people show respect to each other and their beliefs.

Quality

We don’t make false promises that we can’t deliver.

When Christian Connection was launched in September 2000 we set out with the goal that we wanted Christian Connection to be able to offer a service that was at least as good as if not better than some of the best secular sites in terms of quality of service and features. In a world where technology is changing constantly, that is quite a challenge but we listen to our members and are always trying to improve the quality and range of what we do. Our team of developers are constantly working to improve the customer experience and add new features.

Trust and Integrity

Whenever we ask people why they choose Christian Connection, the word that comes up most often is trust. People are putting up their profiles, sharing details, putting their time and commitment in to the site and it is very important that they can trust us and the service we provide.

We also do our best to ensure that our members are also telling the truth to us and to each other. We check each profile and photo that comes on to the site and we have a dedicated customer service team who respond to comments and complaints from our members, deal with several queries each day and investigate any difficulties people are having on the site. If other members aren’t telling the truth, or are not behaving as they should, we personally address the situation. We also ensure that we keep people’s data confidential and help people keep safe.

Every day, on most dating sites (including Christian Connection) there are fraudsters trying to sign up to dating sites in order to find people they might be able to deceive in order to make money from them. We put in all kinds of measures and a great deal of time ensuring that we find and stop these people, getting them off the site and away from our members.

For more information read more about Safety on Christian Connection.

Community

Christians believe in Community and so do we.

As we all know, being single and Christian can be a tough proposition. In many Churches, single people can feel invisible and under valued. Our members are like you and understand where you are coming from. There is an active community on the message boards and a system which allows members to organise local meetups. We also offer offline events such as speed-dating, quiz nights and themed parties giving members a chance to meet face to face in a comfortable environment. Some members stay on the site even once they have met someone because of the supportive and active community.

We know that there are so many difficulties and we are and always have been interested in working with others towards a better future for single people in the Church. We have joined with groups like Project One to take the message to the Church and to inspire single Christians to set up their own events and networks.

Jackie Elton who runs Christian Connection is a speaker and is invited by Churches and Christian organisations to talk about singleness in the Church, online dating and many related issues. If you want to have a speaker at your Church, please do contact us and we will do what we can to help.

Why Pay?

Christian Connection offers all new members a 5 day free trial, which gives members access to all the features on the site, like searching, messaging, discussion boards and local member-run events ('meetups').

If you decide to subscribe once your trial has ended, you'll continue to get full access to all of these features. If not, you'll still be able to log in to the site, read any messages, search, participate in discussion boards and attend meetups. Or if you decide the site is not for you, we make it very easy to close your account (or just 'hide' your profile should you wish to come back at another time).

Although there are free Christian dating websites available, Christian Connection is very different and, we believe, much better! We ask for subscriptions because:

Why do some sites charge and others don't?

Some sites are free but they make money in a number of ways including from Google advertising or by creating databases of profiles and contact details that can be sold to other dating sites which do charge. If you do join a free site you may find that you are constantly being marketed to other sites.

Free sites generally have very limited customer service which may mean that profiles are not vetted. This can give scammers, who use the site to find people they can deceive into sending them money, a free run.

Other "Christian" Dating Sites

The great majority of “Christian Dating” sites are not run by Christians at all and some of them don’t even have many Christians on them. The majority of dating sites operating on the Internet are run by very large Dating “Platforms”. These platforms operate hundreds and sometimes thousands of different sites run by one organisation. They will run general sites, sites for casual daters, “adult” sites and even adultery sites. They simply see Christian sites as another way for them to take money.

Most of these site have no real Christian ethos or commitment to the Christian Community. In addition to that they very often have a shared database, and other members you meet may not have signed up to joining a Christian site at all but may have ticked “Christian” rather than ticking atheist or Muslim when signing up for another dating site. These people never signed up and hadn’t intended to be classified as Christian daters at all.

So while you might be apparently inundated by emails from potential dates, they probably won’t be from real Christians.

Many other Christian dating sites are American based – even though they may state that they are a UK site with a UK domain name. The majority of members will be international, or mainly American. With such sites there is a much higher risk of fraudsters coming on to the site looking for people they can trick into handing over money to them. There is often less accountability on such very large sites.

When you look at a dating site, remember to look for the following:

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